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She was only in Paris for three days. She met the love of her life on the Metro

(CNN) — Andye was only in Paris for three days. On day one, she jumped aboard the Metro practice that might change her life ceaselessly.

It was September 2016. Andye, born in Haiti and introduced up in the US, was 25 and ending up a Master’s diploma in Amsterdam, in the Netherlands.

She was in that in-between section of a level when research are over, however commencement remains to be to return.

“I decided, ‘I’m just going to travel for a month and then come back to Amsterdam,'” Andye tells CNN Travel.

Andye deliberate a month’s journey exploring Italy, Greece, Egypt and India. On her approach again, she returned by way of Paris to go to an in depth buddy, Seyna, who lived in the French capital and was taking care of some of Andye’s belongings.

“I got on the Metro to head back to my friend’s house where I’d dropped off my suitcases,” Andye remembers to CNN Travel. “And that’s where he got on.”

“He” was Steven, a 26-year-old Master’s scholar initially from the Central African Republic learning in Paris and dealing part-time in a faculty. (Andye and Steven have requested that only their first names be used for privateness causes.)

When Steven boarded the practice, the carriage was already full of vacationers. He was one of a number of passengers standing.

Meanwhile, Andye was sitting, her touring backpack on her knee and her headphones on. Steven observed her instantly.

“I found her really beautiful,” Steven tells CNN Travel.

A couple of stops glided by, the carriage emptied out, seats freed up and Steven ended up sitting reverse Andye. He stored glancing her approach. She gave the impression to be him too. Their eyes stored assembly.

Andye additionally observed Steven amid the crowds of vacationers.

“We just kept looking at each other,” she remembers. “He would turn around to look at me, and I would look away, and we just kept on doing that for like a good 15 minutes, just staring at each other and looking away.”

As the practice sped underground the Parisian streets, Steven tried to suppose of a well mannered technique to broach dialog with the woman with the backpack. He wished to talk to her, however he was additionally acutely aware of respecting her house and privateness.

Meanwhile, Andye was silently fantasizing about the stranger reverse her.

She remembers being struck by his “calming energy.”

“He had really nice, muscular arms. I was like, ‘Wow, he looks like someone I could really get a nice hug from.'”

As these ideas flashed by way of Andye’s thoughts, they have been adopted by one other, sinking realization.

“I was like, ‘What if he’s my husband, but I’ll never know? Because I’m going to get off this train without ever speaking to him.'”

“Then, at some point — when our eyes finally caught each other, and neither of us turned back — I saw his lips move. So I removed one of my headphones.”

Metro meet-cute

Steven and Andye began chatting after they have been on the similar Paris Metro practice in September 2016.


In French, Steven was suggesting Andye may transfer her heavy-looking backpack onto the now vacant seat subsequent to her.

Andye, who’s fluent in French, replied that it wasn’t crucial — the bag wasn’t heavy.

“Then, somehow, I just did not put on my headphones back, because I kind of was hoping that we would keep on talking,” says Andye. “And then the conversation continued.”

Steven requested if Andye was a scholar — as a result of of the backpack — and she or he informed him about her research. Steven defined he was additionally working in the direction of a Master’s diploma.

“At some point, I had to get off the train to transfer, and he asked if he could get off with me. And I said, ‘You can do as you please.'”

As they acquired off the practice collectively, Steven provided to assist carry her backpack.

“I felt a bit nervous because I didn’t know him and I thought about how he could probably run away with my bag,” says Andye. “But my gut felt comfortable enough to allow him to take it.”

The two waited for the subsequent subway station collectively, Steven holding the backpack. Then they acquired on the subsequent practice collectively and sat subsequent to 1 one other.

“We just kept on talking,” says Andye. “That’s when we realized that we actually were doing our Master’s in the same field of study. We were both studying sustainable development, and we started talking about that a bit.”

When the practice arrived at Andye’s cease, Steven acquired off with her, handed her the backpack. They exchanged numbers, then Steven requested if he may give her a hug goodbye. Andye agreed.

“I thought that was so weird, because in France people just do the kisses on the cheek, they don’t hug,” remembers Andye.

“I was like, ‘Wow, what if this guy is a mind reader? Because earlier I was just thinking I could get a really nice hug from him.'”

After their hug, the two went their separate methods. Steven, glancing at his cellphone, realized his Metro detour had made him late for work.

Meanwhile, Andye reunited with her buddy Seyna and instantly shared particulars of her Metro meet-cute.

Later that night, Steven messaged Andye and nervously waited for a reply.

“When she responded, I screamed and ran to my cousin,” says Steven, recalling asserting that Andye was the lady he would marry.

Andye and Steven messaged forwards and backwards all night, making an attempt to determine if they may meet up once more earlier than Andye returned to Amsterdam. She had a good schedule, and at first advised it might be simpler to fulfill in a couple of weeks — after commencement she deliberate to return to Paris for per week earlier than she headed residence to the US.

“Even if we see each other for just a quick second, I really want to see you before you leave,” wrote Steven in response.

Eventually, the two settled on assembly for a fast dinner on Andye’s final night. Steven wished to impress Andye and take her to a swanky restaurant, however Andye wished to verify she would not be late residence, given she was touring the subsequent day.

They settled on an off-the-cuff quick meals spot, proper subsequent to the Metro cease the place they’d parted the first time.

As Andye was preparing for the date, Seyna teased her about her romantic Metro assembly and the subsequent date plans.

“She was really giddy about me going on the date,” Andye laughs.

When they noticed each other once more, each Andye and Steven felt excited.

“I felt butterflies in my stomach,” says Steven.

“We did the usual French greeting with one kiss on each cheek AKA ‘la bise,'” remembers Andye, who remembers making an attempt to mood her pleasure, given her imminent return to the US.

Inside the restaurant, the two settled into dialog shortly.

“We started talking and getting to know each other a bit,” remembers Andye.

Steven was easy with Andye, explaining he was trying for a relationship.

“I thought that was like, ‘Whoa, first date, like you’re doing too much for me.’ But I appreciated his sincerity,” says Andye. “We kept on talking and I got, again, that kind of like, calm feeling being around him.”

Andye’s unique plan to maintain the night quick now not appeared so necessary. She advised they go into the heart of Paris to a bar.

Later, Steven accompanied Andye again to her buddy’s condo. Outside the door, they kissed. Then Steven returned to the place he lived, additional into the suburbs of Paris.

It was later than he’d realized, and trains had stopped operating, so he walked most of the approach. Steven says he did not thoughts, he was simply caught up in the pleasure and romance of the night.

Meanwhile, Andye excitedly informed Seyna about the date and the way properly it went.

“Then the next day I left to go to Amsterdam, but we kept in touch. He was messaging me the whole time I was in Amsterdam,” remembers Andye.

Long distance

Andye went back to the US, but she stayed in touch with Steven.

Andye went again to the US, however she stayed in contact with Steven.


After commencement, Andye returned to Paris for a short stopover earlier than her return to the US. Once once more, she organized to fulfill Steven at the Metro cease by Seyna’s condo.

The two hopped on the practice collectively and went for a stroll alongside the Champs Élysées, by way of the Trocadéro space and in the direction of the Eiffel Tower.

Andye and Steven tried to see one another as a lot as they may throughout these few days, typically using the Metro collectively. On one of these journeys, Steven turned to Andye and mentioned he did not need her to return to the US.

“Why?” requested Andye.

“Because I love you,” mentioned Steven.

“How can you love me? You don’t even know me!” mentioned Andye.

Andye boarded her flight to the US at the finish of September, with no imminent plans to return to Europe.

“We didn’t make plans to meet up, we kind of held hope that we were gonna see each other again, at some point,” says Andye.

“We decided that we’re going to keep in touch, and just keep writing to each other and talking,” says Steven.

Three months later, Andye began working with a world group based mostly in Washington DC. She quickly realized the position concerned enterprise journey, principally to Guinea. Serendipitously, flights typically included a layover in Paris.

In March 2017, six months after their first Metro encounter, Steven and Andye reunited at Charles de Gaulle airport for Andye’s 24-hour stopover.

In the intervening months, the two had been in fixed communication. But it wasn’t the similar as lastly seeing each other in individual once more.

“Wow, this person actually exists,” Andye remembers considering.

“We talked a lot, we hugged a lot,” says Steven of their reunion.

But earlier than lengthy they have been saying goodbye once more.

Andye’s position concerned touring to West Africa each three months or so. She figured that every time, she would attempt to incorporate a Paris layover.

But Steven felt responsible that Andye was the one at all times touring — he did not have a visa to journey to the US, so he could not reciprocate the journeys.

“It was getting complicated,” he says. “Because it was always Andye who would have had to travel, I thought it would have been even more complicated later on in the process.”

Steven did not talk these worries to Andye. But she sensed one thing was up.

“I just remember him being less attentive, really distant. And I said, ‘Look, if you’re not into this, let’s just end it. I am not going to chase you. I love you. But I don’t like one-sided relationships. I would like for this to be reciprocal. And since it’s not, I’m kind of removing myself out of the equation.'”

Reunited in Paris

Andye and Steven reconnected in Paris after a few months apart.

Andye and Steven reconnected in Paris after a couple of months aside.

Yann Guidon / Photon Thérapie

A pair of months handed. Andye and Steven did not discuss throughout this era, however they each thought of each other typically. Meanwhile, Andye deliberate a visit to Paris to go to Seyna.

“I’m usually the kind of person, like once it’s over, it’s over. But with him I felt like this was more kind of a break than a breakup,” says Andye.

“I had my friend Seyna kind of reach out to him to see if he was okay, since I hadn’t heard from him, and tell him that I was coming to France for a week for vacation.”

Steven and Andye organized to fulfill up throughout Andye’s journey.

“We talked a lot. We went out dancing, and then we kind of got back to how things were before,” she says. “I was in Paris for at least four to five days and we spent most of the time together.”

Steven says seeing Andye once more after the months of silence “reignited a fire” inside him.

“At that moment I thought to myself, ‘If I don’t make it work, I’m going to regret it for the rest of my life,'” he says.

The two have been capable of discuss candidly about the state of affairs, with Andye explaining she did not thoughts that she was at all times the one touring, given she may incorporate visits into work journeys.

They parted on stronger phrases.

“I was really easy and confident in our relationship after that visit, but I do think that it took a while for me to warm back up into it,” says Andye.

The relationship did have one other wobble when Andye was again in DC. When they got here again collectively once more, Andye was agency: She informed Steven they each needed to be all in.

“I was like, ‘Look, I don’t have time to play games. If this is what you want to do, it’s not for me, I was very strict on my boundaries. I told him, ‘Look, if you’re really serious about this, here’s my mom’s number. You let her know that you’re serious about her daughter.'”

Within per week, Steven had despatched an extended paragraph to Andye’s mom.

“I tried to tell her a bit about myself,” Steven explains. “I said I was serious about Andye.”

Steven’s message had the impact of taking Andye and Steven’s relationship to the subsequent stage. They began speaking about what nation they may dwell in the future, and plans for marriage.

Andye and Steven's temporary breakup made the relationship stronger.

Andye and Steven’s momentary breakup made the relationship stronger.


The subsequent time they reunited in France, in November 2017, Andye constructed per week’s trip into her stopover.

“He came to pick me up and brought my favorite chocolate croissants to the airport,” she remembers. “He knows I’m addicted.”

It was throughout this journey that Steven proposed.

“When I met Andye, I felt at peace, in sync with all of nature’s elements,” says Steven. “But when I wanted to propose to her, I felt a wave of different feelings. I was asking myself what I would do if she said no and at the same time, I was excited at the idea that she would accept to be my wife. I was nervous and shaking internally.”

Andye accepted Steven’s proposal.

“I got that same calm feeling that I had that first day that I met him,” says Andye of the second she mentioned sure.

The couple stored the information to themselves for a short time, first telling Seyna, Andye’s Paris-based buddy, and later Steven’s finest buddy.

The two determined to get pleasure from the engagement for a short while, and never rush into marriage They continued their long-distance romance and the following summer time Andye spent 4 months in France with Steven. She’d stop her job and was in the center of a brief break, reconvening and determining her subsequent steps career-wise.

“It was a really wonderful summer,” says Andye, recalling high quality time spent with Steven, his household and associates.

While she was in France, Andye additionally regarded into making use of for jobs in Paris. But this proved trickier than she anticipated

Andye and Steven had beforehand figured it made most sense for Andye to maneuver to France — Andye was fluent in French, in any case. But after she struggled to discover a France-based job, the couple began discussing the chance of residing collectively in the US as an alternative.

Almost a 12 months later, in July 2019, Steven’s fiance visa was authorized. To rejoice, Andye and Steven went to Haiti. While there, they have been impressed to plan their very own Haiti-based marriage ceremony celebration.

Move to the US

Andye and Steven got married exactly three years after they met on the Metro.

Andye and Steven acquired married precisely three years after they met on the Metro.


Steven and Andye began their American life collectively in a tiny studio condo in DC. They had a small marriage ceremony at a courtroom workplace on September 16, 2019 — the three 12 months anniversary of their Metro assembly — whereas anticipating a bigger celebration in Haiti the following 12 months.

Both Andye and Steven have been thrilled to be residing collectively after years of lengthy distance. The two began an organization collectively, Afrayiti, creating handmade attire utilizing African material.

Not lengthy afterwards, Covid-19 hit the US. Steven misplaced his job, and early on, Andye caught the virus and was hospitalized.

She recovered bodily, however struggled with anxiousness for a while afterward.

“I became really anxious to the point where I didn’t leave my place for three months,” Andye remembers. “I didn’t even step outside of the door of our apartment.”

During this time, Andye says Steven was an enormous assist.

“I wouldn’t have survived this pandemic, if it wasn’t for him.”

Steven says there isn’t a one however Andye who he’d need to spend lockdown with.

The Haiti marriage ceremony celebration canceled, the couple as an alternative spent their time cooking, stitching and designing collectively.

As the pandemic waned, Steven inspired Andye to reenter the world. She’s grateful for his persistence throughout this era.

“I was so scared to go outside and he kind of really pushed me into taking just small steps,” says Andye.

In summer time 2021, the couple relocated to Florida, enticed by the thought of extra space, heat climate and proximity to the seaside. They really feel, says Andye, “at peace” in Florida.

An actual life romantic comedy

Andye and Steven feel like fate brought them together.

Andye and Steven really feel like destiny introduced them collectively.

Yann Guidon / Photon Thérapie

Today, Andye and Steven are nonetheless Florida-based, planning future adventures collectively. Since the world opened up, they’ve visited Tanzania, Zanzibar and Costa Rica collectively.

When their Haiti marriage ceremony celebration was canceled, the couple determined to begin a practice the place they plan a trip to coincide with their anniversary. Right now, they’re in Mexico celebrating six years since their Metro assembly and three years since their courthouse marriage ceremony.

“One of the things that is symbolic — and I don’t think he notices — is when we’re traveling, he likes to ask me [if he can] carry my backpack,” says Andye.

Steven’s been carrying her bag, “since day one,” says Andye, laughing.

While Andye and Steven suppose they have been fated to fulfill Steven on the Metro that day, they each have moments after they marvel at what occurred.

“There are days where I say to him, “God, I’m married to a stranger that I met on the practice in Paris,'” she says.

“What if I was late to take the practice, what would have occurred?” says Steven. “It’s future that introduced us collectively.”

When Steven and Andye tell others how they met, they’re often told their story resembles a romantic comedy.

“Honestly, I really feel like I’m residing a rom-com with him,” says Andye. “Especially as a Black lady, you do not typically see worldwide love tales with Black girls or Black males in them.

And I feel for me, simply typically once I give it some thought, I’m like, ‘Wow, I’m residing my very own rom-com.’ I need not see it on TV, that is it.”



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